In a recent EconTalk podcast on parenting, the guest economist presented evidence for strong hereditary effects and weak parental effects on children’s outcomes, in a nutshell. I get the general argument, and I’m generally amenable to the idea. As a big fan of personal agency, I’d like to think that my kids will get to determine who they will be and not be “pre-determined” by me despite my best intentions.
There’s one point, however, that didn’t come up in the conversation that I think is really important. The point: it’s dangerous to try to use population statistics to guide individual behavior. I think the medical profession exemplifies this danger really well. When doctors study diseases and therapies, they tend to experiment at the population level. As an oversimplification, when the FDA approves a drug it is because the drug had positive net effects on the population as a whole. However, each drug also comes with warnings about all the possible side effects—side effects that happened to individuals during those same trails that yielded net positive benefits. I can’t help but laugh to see that these side effects seem to always include “death,” however innocuous the drug or remote the possibility.
As an individual patient, I couldn’t care less what the effect of a drug on a population will be. My interest is the drug’s effect on me, a population of one. To the doctor, patients are delivered to the exam room like numbers from a roulette wheel, and the effect of a drug on the distribution of all patients might take on a nice Gaussian curve. To the patient entering the doctor’s office, the distribution of effects is uniform, and if you’re in the unlucky tail of the Gaussian patient curve, then that uniform distribution says “you + drug = death.” The grand majority of doctors do not treat individuals; they treat means of population distributions one individual at a time.
As for parenting, it’s not terribly surprising that the cacophony of parenting skills and techniques across large populations yields a cacophony of child outcomes netting something close to zero at the mean. But who cares? These glib stats say nothing about the few dots in the corner of the scatter plot representing the children whose lives were dramatically affected by the “nurturing” of a parent, for better or worse. It doesn’t even say anything about the dots in the middle of the graph because nobody knows where those exact dots might land if the study were somehow “replicated.” The complexities of raising a child may wash out for whole populations, so policy makers may safely be parenting agnostic. For the individual family, however, those complexities may make the difference between some very desirable and very undesirable outcomes. Parents should carefully treat individual and complex children, not means of child populations superimposed on individual children.
Population stats yield population advice. The next time someone starts giving individual advice based on population stats, you might call them out.